What Do I Need to Know if I’m Pregnant in High School?

November 6, 2024

Time might have stood still when you learned you were pregnant. Your emotions are valid whether you feel frustrated, nervous, or even angry. We’re with you as you figure out your next steps.

Knowing where to start with an unexpected pregnancy in high school can be challenging, but you’re not alone. Continue reading to gain clarity.

Whatever You Decide, Know That It’s Your Choice.

It can be easy to think that you can’t make your own pregnancy decision if you’re a minor and still in school. However, know that no one—not even your parents or guardians—can compel you to make a decision you’re uncomfortable with, including abortion.  

Though the future might seem uncertain, know that help is available so you can understand your rights, gather information about your pregnancy, and make a clear decision. 

You Have Rights as a High School Student.

An automatic assumption may be that you must leave school once you learn you’re pregnant. However, you can continue your education while navigating this time and making a pregnancy decision. 

Title IX is a federal law that protects you from discrimination while pregnant and/or parenting and in school. With this law, your school must allow you to continue participating in classes and extracurricular activities.

You are also entitled to accommodations, such as excused absences and frequent bathroom breaks. These policies allow you to continue learning, and any school that receives federal funds must comply with them.

You Deserve Support.

Whether you have already shared the news with friends and family or are still preparing for the conversation, remember that you deserve a strong, healthy support system. This may seem like the most challenging time in your life thus far, and now more than ever, you need people who will be by your side through it all.

Expect various reactions to your news, but remember that they only reflect that person’s feelings, not your worth. You may need to give your loved ones time to process the news and remember to take care of yourself, too.

The pregnancy decision is yours alone. You are more capable than you realize of making one, and we’ll help you find the resources needed to learn all your options.

We Can Help.

Heart to Heart offers the information and services you need to take your next steps. We’ll help you confirm your pregnancy via a limited obstetrical ultrasound (if you have a positive pregnancy test result at the center). We’ll also discuss your options: abortion, adoption, and parenting. 

You can make an educated choice for your pregnancy. We’ll explain the risks and side effects of abortion, outline the adoption process, and describe the parenting resources available to you, including classes. 

It’s your decision. We’re here to help. Schedule a no-cost, confidential appointment today.

Heart to Heart does not provide or refer for abortions.